Don't bother resolutions this new year!

Making new year’s resolutions is senseless as much as we are supposed to live our life as normal people. sometimes we make our resolutions by listing things that they don’t suit us as we really think. Also we started calling our listed resolutions as if they are goals. And that doesn’t make any sense because if we start making our resolution as goals we won’t end up with any benefits for ourselves and we will end up with a life, which is meaningless and we will be just keep doing things that might control our life in a negative way. sometimes we think if we are not meeting our goals or hopes, that our life isn’t good as it’s. Another thing that you really have to choose something that has a big importance for you and however you keep looking for that thing at the end you’re going to find it and it would make a big difference in your life. Also the timing is important like everything has its own time so don’t waste that time on doing things that you shouldn’t be doing in a certain time. On my end choose good choices and enjoy them as much as you can. Only for life! and don't make resolutions that would make your life harder.

There are a lot of things that I really want to change in myself because there is nobody is perfect, but I think the most important one that i want to change in myself is, that I shouldn’t talk to myself in a negative way, which is Negative Self Talk / Self Criticism. I want to change it because it had made my life so difficult. For example, when I want to hang out with my friends I first start thinking about that and then I say to myself that I don’t deserve that as much as everybody actually thinks that I deserve it. Another example, when someone is so good and nice, when they start talking to me I say to myself why am I talking to them. They are much better than me. So I become a little bit isolated. If I change that thing in my life. It’s going to matter and make a big difference. It would be much easier if i change it than I would ever think about it. Because if I initiate the speeches that i give to myself with a positive words. I’m pretty sure that my day will pass in an amazing way. I also tried that feeling of having a good day without any troubles because of what all I did which was, saying great things to myself such as: you can do it or you’re the one that people trust. And I felt so good for saying that. I’ve struggled a lot with this issue (Negative Self Talk). Such as: when I say something bad to myself, once I go back home I stay in my room and never go out for what I’ve done through the day of bad decisions and harsh words. And people start saying why I’m not motivating with them, but I think that isn't of their business at all because they know nothing about me and they start saying things that i even don't care or mind about. and they think that they are in the bottom of my brain of thinking. I always try to change that thing in myself and I look forward to do that. I think I’m going to share what I have with others to help them and help me at the same time and i would like them to advise me. i'll talk to people who are positive. Of course changing that in myself is going to effect on me and my life as well .I would never imagine that moment when i really realize that i'm done with this issue. and I’ll be having a self-confident, I won’t mind if people upset me and I’ll talk in appositive way. So please don’t be like me and keep in mind that beautiful things happen in your life when you distance yourself from all the negative things. and do whatever suit you! because life is amazing with you and your spirit.