Don't bother resolutions this new year!

Making new year’s resolutions is senseless as much as we are supposed to live our life as normal people. sometimes we make our resolutions by listing things that they don’t suit us as we really think. Also we started calling our listed resolutions as if they are goals. And that doesn’t make any sense because if we start making our resolution as goals we won’t end up with any benefits for ourselves and we will end up with a life, which is meaningless and we will be just keep doing things that might control our life in a negative way. sometimes we think if we are not meeting our goals or hopes, that our life isn’t good as it’s. Another thing that you really have to choose something that has a big importance for you and however you keep looking for that thing at the end you’re going to find it and it would make a big difference in your life. Also the timing is important like everything has its own time so don’t waste that time on doing things that you shouldn’t be doing in a certain time. On my end choose good choices and enjoy them as much as you can. Only for life! and don't make resolutions that would make your life harder.

There are a lot of things that I really want to change in myself because there is nobody is perfect, but I think the most important one that i want to change in myself is, that I shouldn’t talk to myself in a negative way, which is Negative Self Talk / Self Criticism. I want to change it because it had made my life so difficult. For example, when I want to hang out with my friends I first start thinking about that and then I say to myself that I don’t deserve that as much as everybody actually thinks that I deserve it. Another example, when someone is so good and nice, when they start talking to me I say to myself why am I talking to them. They are much better than me. So I become a little bit isolated. If I change that thing in my life. It’s going to matter and make a big difference. It would be much easier if i change it than I would ever think about it. Because if I initiate the speeches that i give to myself with a positive words. I’m pretty sure that my day will pass in an amazing way. I also tried that feeling of having a good day without any troubles because of what all I did which was, saying great things to myself such as: you can do it or you’re the one that people trust. And I felt so good for saying that. I’ve struggled a lot with this issue (Negative Self Talk). Such as: when I say something bad to myself, once I go back home I stay in my room and never go out for what I’ve done through the day of bad decisions and harsh words. And people start saying why I’m not motivating with them, but I think that isn't of their business at all because they know nothing about me and they start saying things that i even don't care or mind about. and they think that they are in the bottom of my brain of thinking. I always try to change that thing in myself and I look forward to do that. I think I’m going to share what I have with others to help them and help me at the same time and i would like them to advise me. i'll talk to people who are positive. Of course changing that in myself is going to effect on me and my life as well .I would never imagine that moment when i really realize that i'm done with this issue. and I’ll be having a self-confident, I won’t mind if people upset me and I’ll talk in appositive way. So please don’t be like me and keep in mind that beautiful things happen in your life when you distance yourself from all the negative things. and do whatever suit you! because life is amazing with you and your spirit.

Meet my heroine

My heroine is the one that cared about me, my mom. she's an amazing woman, who treated me very well for 14 years. she's the heroine who protected me from every single thing.  She touches my heart each and every day, as we’re always here for each other. Mom not only is my heroine she continues to inspire me after 13 years of having her as a mom. It was not always like this, yet today, I am so fortunate to have an unconditional love for her.

Several months ago on my birthday I awoke up so stressed out for no reason, I couldn’t find anyone to relax me up. However, I had my only person who would do that and it’s my hero, mom. She relaxed me up and reminded me that the day that I woke up was the same day that I was born on. And because it was my birthday, she got me the most important thing, and that thing was the reason of connecting us for 9 months, which is the navel(belly button) that nobody would have. That was the best birthday gift ever after.

 You know, life wouldn’t be life without the only heroine that you have, for me it’s my mom.

Use numbers

Use numbers whenever and wherever are you, numbers are everywhere. Here and there. Numbers have a value, which expressed by a word. Numbers are an amount to a specified quantity. And everything in our life is specified. Our weights, intelligence, heights and ages are numbers. Who says that our life wouldn’t be made up of numbers?    

Even the life path is the sum of the birth date that you were born in and the date that you die in, this number represent you as a person that have such a unique number you lived with. people in my math class always ask why do we learn math? I always answer them just for no reason; I say that because if I say my real opinion they wouldn’t believe me. And my answer for them is because of the logic that we are made for since the first day of our life.  

Numbers are everywhere, so people decided to do two steps to make numbers more clear in our life by applying these numbers. The first step is we use numbers while we play the piano, guitar and even violin, we do the calculations of the tones of the play. So how come we don’t need numbers.

Okay! If you don’t believe me I’ll give you the second step that all scientist agreed on doing it and they chose it to make it easy for you, which is physics and engineering. So these two can’t be done without numbers. Also because of them You can’t be living in a house without measured numbers of the heights and corners of your house, so please don’t make it complicated. It’s all about logic. and logic is numbers. 

what do people think about you?

What do people think about you…? I always hear people talk about me OR people tell me things other people say, but mostly the things they say are pretty good. Also keep in mind, that I don’t mind what they say ,because If I do I'll be wasting a lot of time on something shouldn't be appreciated.

So yesterday was the last day before winter break also it was the worst day yet. It wasn’t the worst day for what I heard, but it’s for other reasons. However yesterday a guy came to me and told me that other boys say I’m so sweet and cool. I won’t lie, it was amazing to hear a thing like that in such a bad day. Sometimes you’re forced to hear things you don’t like, but it’s your only decision to hear what they say or think.

So usually when you hear something either you like or not  you have just to hear them and after that it's your choice to ignore them, or make a fake version of yourself to make other people happy and make them love and like you!!BUT I’ll just tell you that there’s nobody is perfect and god created us to complete each other as humans also he created us in standards of specific features. It doesn’t matter if people are beautiful, rich, smart or hard workers. It’s all about you, only you. You’re different so don’t compare yourself to others. and don't change yourself for others.

They have their own stuff and features. And you too, you’re not forgotten at all. One last thing that people like those who like other people instead on specific standards, for sure they are entitled and useless.  

Freedom of speech, maybe

            

             "Human rights are something you were born with. Human rights are your god-gives rights, humans rights are the rights that are recognized by all nations of the earth". And the freedom of speech is a right for all human beings, the freedom of speech is the right of people to express their opinions publicly without governmental interference. It's important because of a lot of reasons. First, it’s the only way to express what do humans have of feelings or sometimes it might be a problem and It has to be solved, so the only we could do is to speak. such as: I have feelings to someone like Donald trump and not everybody likes him, then I write an article because I like him, at the same time I get bullied for expressing my feelings and passion, yet speaking out is the only thing humans could do. Second humans got mouths to speak out and to not just shut them up. If we don’t speak or talk, there isn’t any reason to be alive also if we could speak by our noses too, I would like to shut our noses up because we have something instead. Finally, we speak to defend and protect ourselves of others bullying and unsuspecting us. half of the people can’t do anything unless speaking out to the world for their demands and the other half of us use speaking because they can't defend themselves by their own. They better talk instead of dying without any positive impacts. And if you want to prove yourself, you have to speak for your rights. but When It comes to bullying and attacking others, It’s something else. Freedom of speech protects everyone from all walks of life to think and express themselves freely. in my opinion, It's the only way to express your feelings and what you have of words for actions, sometimes It might be the only reaction we can do as humans for something humans wouldn't like.The freedom of speech is a right for all human beings so don't wonder If you see or listen to something you don't like because the way that people think of is completely different of your way of thinking. 

           Sometimes the freedom of speech makes a lot of problems, it might be because of unlimited vision of opinions also unlimited opinions might make a big conflicts . these problems include, both religious and political. Fields like these have been affecting the main problems against the freedom of speech, because people have at least one belief of religious or political fields, so if we stand against a person who stands by one of these fields we might be in trouble because fields like these are so sensitive. For example when we talk about a religious thing, it becomes something else because the religion is the most important thing for very single person of us and also it's a belief and beliefs are different, for example once I saw something which talks about my religion. and that really has affected me, as you know it's the only belief that I believe in so it's so bad and hard to see or listen to something is done as a sarcasm and make fun of your only belief. For me The freedom of speech is unlimited either when a guy is talking about something officially is done such as a government cuts off the Internet of the city, so here we can say that there’s no limit of speech because it’s something might effects somebody’s life. But when it comes to bully people or break their hearts, beliefs and feelings, then we have to stop and limit the speech, and act like adults also to be responsible of every single thing we do and say. somehow we have to stop ourselves from the distinguishes between people or might just to not care of what others say and to be confident of myself to have a great belief to believe in. because for them it's just an opinion and we shouldn't care for others opinions. on my end others opinions, which are the same of the freedom of speech, are not important if you have your own opinion.

          There is a solution for everything. the problems up there have a lot of solution. First, to stay away of the two fields, the political and religious fields, because they are the most sensitive things to dig in. for example, talk about whatever you want, but do not get closer to political and religious issues, because in these two things people have different perspectives.  Second, we should not pay any attention to other opinions and ignore them also stick to your opinion. Such as, if someone discussed something you like in a bad way, just do not get mad or make detention, because it's not an important thing to waste your time on. Finally, you simply can end all of this by not speaking about others and countries or beliefs, because you have no right to speak about beliefs or countries that you don't belong to, also your opinion might affect on people from that country that you are talking about, which makes a big distention in the country. and do not talk about people in a harsh way. because this called bullying, of course you prefer to be treated in a good way. so treat others the same way you would like to be treated. or do not ask for your rights if you offend others. on my end, we have always to avoid troubles. on my opinion the freedom of speech is a right and everybody has to have it, but it's not a right when the person is not respecting others.

THE BEST WHEEL DRIVER EVER!

every single person has his/her own story, and their stories might change something in your life. As one of the most inspiration stories have I ever heard in my whole life is Amjad's story. Amjad is a driver he works in King's Academy, since I talked to him for the first time, I knew that he's a nice person. also I asked him some questions and for the first question i had to ask  him about the part that he likes the most  in his job at King's Academy. He said:" I can't argue about anything at KA, It's such an amazing school, I like the way that the students and the staff members deal and speak with me and even with others! also it's a great community full of magnificent values."besides that he told me about the happiest moment in his life it was when his wife sired the first children for him, he has 2 daughters (twins- after eight years waiting for them.

 I asked him about the things he would learn from us as students. He answered:" I want to develop myself and to have a bigger ambition to achieve as  you all have a, because I'm impressed of the people in KA and the students of KA are the leaders of our world." He also told me about the purpose of working in this school ",because KA gave me the chance and opportunity. however, it has a lot of features instead of other schools, but the only thing that he didn't like is when the students are late for something which is the worst thing he suffers.

I had to ask him something silly; to have fun while we're talking, so i asked him about his favorite colors,he said that "yellow and pink" are his favorite colors, after a bit of time i asked him a sillier question which was about his favorite dish, he said:" Chinese food is my favorite".however, I've been thinking about what makes him bored! he said:"driving or riding people to the same place every single time, so i would like to change my certain destination." also he worked in shipping for 5 years, he shipped good and stuff to gulf regions. nevertheless Amjad is skilled person on driving because he has specifications compared to others. he told me that he drives more than 60km per day. and he starts his job at 6am and ends at 6am which means 12 hours of work. he told me that he shouldn't wear a specific uniform, but he usually wears a shirt and pants. On the other hand he likes winter more that summer because it's much easier for his kind of work.

imagine this was Amjad's truck  for shipping.

 I concluded that Amjad is a simple person he just wants to live a good life and to be happy also to enjoy the moment, he mentioned a bit about the treatment he gets from the students:" i like the way they treat me and talk to me with respect and serious way at the same time." and he wants only one thing which is helping him to speak English and train him too! after all of this he passed one problem so far in this school which is smoking, at KA smoking isn't allowed and he smokes!! as I wanted to end our conversation, but he insisted to tell me one last thing which was an advice, he advised me to work hard for my feature and use my time to achieve whatever i wish to! thus, it was amazing meeting and talking to him.   

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SMILING

Smiling happens without planning for it ,when a friend do something silly or EMBARRASSING  you directly smile or laugh without any planned reasons,but did you know that smiling also triggers activity in your brain?yep scientifically, there's a serious mind-body connection there. So there're some reasons for smiling as Smiling can make you happy (even when you're not). Also Smiling makes you more attractive. you're going to ask how?have you Ever wonder why are we always asked to smile in photos? Because people usually look their best—and happiest—when smiling. According to the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry," 96 percent of American adults believe an attractive smile makes a person more appealing to members of the opposite gender. " So the next time you are about to ask someone on a date, smile. It'll make them feel happier,  and you'll already be more attractive in his or her eyes! 
The next time you're stressed about work or realize that your favorite jeans feel a little snug, don't freak out. Take a few deep breaths and smile! Smiling may help to reduce your anxiety!! And  Have you ever laughed without smiling? It's pretty impossible to do. And it's funny how a smile here and a smile there with friends can turn into a whole fit of hysterical laughter. Numerous studies have been done on the health benefits of laughing, including how it acts like a mini workout that burns calories and works the abs. Laughter also helps blood flow, lowers blood sugar levels, reduces stress and improves sleep.